(2/3) “I’d also been engaged recently. We broke it off in January. I was trying to make some changes in my life. I stopped wearing make-up for a few months to see what sort of things I’d notice if I stopped looking in the mirror so much. I made a deal with myself that I wasn’t going to post any selfies for a while. I was only going to photograph things that weren’t me. I started posting photos of nature, art, and my teacup collection. That began to attract other people into my life who were interested in those things. One night Chris sent me a message. It was a photo of a bridge he’d just taken. We went back and forth for a couple weeks, then decided to meet. A few months earlier, I probably would have never agreed to meet. But I was at a point in my life where I was trying to be open to new things. I told him my only rule was that he couldn’t murder me.”
“And my only rule was that she had to wear her cat glasses.”
I often follow the popular photo blog called, Humans of New York,
which displays photography from Brandon Stanton. Recently I had noticed this
particular blog post and thought of our CS400ba course. Technology has truly
entered so many aspects of the personal and work lives. Online dating is a new
phenomenon, some popular smart phone applications and dating websites include
Tinder, Grinder and Plenty of Fish. However, as displayed in this blog post by
Stanton, digital technologies not originally created for dating purposes has led
to being used for that anyways.
As discussed throughout this semester, we have learned
much about how social formations are materially constituted as articulations of
technologies of collaboration and coordination. Do you feel that online dating
apps and websites allow for this to occur and thus create new cultural
imaginaries of social belonging? With this in mind, how do you feel about
online dating? Does it make dating too easy? Tedious? Fun? Revolutionary? Or
does this new form of dating seem to be taken too far by the increase of
technology and being connected via the internet in our globalized world today?

